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The damsel in distress, Dejanira was the wife of Hercules. I've mentioned it in my previous article. Dejanira wanted to cross the river, a centaur known as Nessus offered to help as he would ferry people from one end to another. In the middle of the journey, he lost his control and began to force himself on Deja. Her husband Hercules killed him with a poisonous arrow. However, the dying Nessus manipulated the insecure Deja to make Hercules wear his bloody coat to make him loyal to her. She took the coat and made Hercules wear it which led to his death. Nessus represents lust out of control. He is passionate like Pluto but wild like Mars. To say, he is a combination of both. He is untamed, aggressive and deeply manipulative. Dejanira is naive, innocent, vulnerable, attractive, magnetizing and feminine. This makes her a victim. In your natal chart, Dejanira will symbolize the place where you will be victimized. The sign will show the reason of victimization or channel of vict

There are many takes on abusive asteroids. There is a scare about Nessus that if conjuncts your natal planet, angle or node then the person becomes abusive. When you think of abuse it can be plain abuse which is either physical, mental or emotional nature. Abuse is for the sake of abuse. It has no feelings or emotions attached to it.  It is pure abuse. You can never glorify or think about it in any positive way. Planets tell you about the real picture of the nature and intensity of abuse. House placements and angles tell you about the place where it will take place. Nodes tell you the motivation behind abuse. But asteroids tell you exactly who will abuse and how. No matter how strange it sounds but asteroids can actually nail the thing. There are two asteroids namely Nessus and Nemesis who are known as "abusive". But there is a significant difference in their nature. Most of the times the confusion between their natures can lead to a wrong conclusion. You can stay in a rela